But I'd like to talk to you about something else today.
My family has been blessed numerous times from others generosity. From anonymous generosity to family and friends being there through tough times. I have truly been blessed to know such giving people.
Growing up my mom taught me this
This piece of advice has stuck with me forever. This simple piece of advice, to GIVE, is my mom summed up. Always looking for service to give, whether to friends, neighbors or her own family.When you are down, and having a bad day. Feeling selfish or depressed. Do something for someone else. Do it without looking for returns. Do it to help them. And when you do, you'll start to feel better. You'll soon forget what was troubling you.
There was one winter we were sturggling. Getting by month to month on student loans and family help. We came home early from our Christmas trip to see Mark's parents to find many anonymous gifts. Presents had been dropped on our doorstep for the girls. Warm coats that we wouldn't otherwise have been able to buy them and a few toys. In the mail, with no return address, were gift cards to our local grocery store. I think I sat down and cried when I opened those up. Someone was looking out for us. Someone GAVE without need for recognition or return.
A couple years ago I joined Cafemom. Throughout the years one group has become very close to me and each other. These are women/moms all over the world I have connected with. Most of us have not and will probably never meet in person.
So there I was one day, trying to find more ways to Give back. I had an idea and decided to run it past the owner of my cafemom group. She loved the idea, and helped me get it going. We now have a private group on cafemom dedicated to giving back. We call ourselves angels. I can't even begin to tell you all that this group has done. I may have started the group, but it's the ladies who joined who are truly amazing. Every year about this time, we start looking for our fellow cafemom members in need. I do the leg work and contact the members for addresses, kids ages and clothing sizes. But then my angels do the important stuff. They dig into their pockets, their own kids clothes, and they Give Back! They bless these moms who are struggling. Moms who are crying because they don't have a single present under the tree for their kids. We help. We give back. Because that is what it's all about.
That is why we celebrate Christmas.
The joy of giving to others; seeing their faces light up because someone thought of them.
The joy of knowing a child won't be cold, because you could provide a coat.
Or that a family won't go hungry because gift cards were sent anonymously.
I'd like to invite you all to a new day. Giving Tuesday!
We have Black Friday
We have Cyber Monday
Help us continue our ThanksGIVING celebrations through Nov 27 with Giving Tuesday. A day to give back. Find someone to help. Give of your time. Give smiles. Give presents. and Give Thanks.
Tomorrow I will be joining The Motherhood in a twitter party to get the ball rolling. We would love for you to join us!
What: Join a Twitter party to spread the word about celebrating the first-ever #GivingTuesday, a national day of giving at the start of the annual holiday season to celebrate and encourage charitable activities that support nonprofit organizations. This year's #GivingTuesday will take place on November 27, the Tuesday following Thanksgiving, Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Our Twitter party will address how you can spread the word, why this movement matters and ways to get involved!
When: The party will be on Thursday, Nov. 1, at noon ET.
Where: Use the #GivingTuesday hashtag on Twitter to find us!
Hosts: Follow @theMotherhood, @GivingTues, @CooperMunroe and @EmilyMcKhann
Prizes: We'll be giving away five $25 VISA gift cards, which you are welcome to use toward your charitable efforts this holiday giving season!