Tuesday, June 18, 2013

The Rockin' Chair by Steven Manchester #BookReview & Author Interview

I have been thrilled to review Steven Manchester's last 2 novels - Goodnight Brian and Twelve Months. His stories are unlike anything else I've read.  So when Steven asked if I would review his newest novel - The Rockin' Chair - I couldn't pass it up. This time though, I asked if he wouldn't mind doing a little interview with me. Enjoy!  The Rockin' Chair was released today 6/18/2013

Interview with author Steven Manchester


When did you first know you wanted to write a book?  
I’d just returned home from Operation Desert Storm, and was working as a prison investigator in Massachusetts. Needless to say, there was great negativity in my life at that time. I decided to return to college to finish my degree in Criminal Justice. During one of the classes, the professor—Barry McKee—talked about police work but nothing else. I finally raised my hand and asked, “The criminal justice system is vast. What about the courts, probation, parole – corrections?” Barry smiled and told me to see him after class. I thought I’d finally done it! In his office, he explained, “There’s no written material out there on corrections or prisons, except from the slanted perspective of inmates.” He smiled again and dropped the bomb. “If you’re so smart,” he said, “why don’t you write it?” Nine months later, I dropped the first draft of 6-5; A Different Shade of Blue on Barry’s desk. From then on, I was hooked. I was a writer.
Who has been your biggest support through the writing process?
From an inspiration perspective: My family; wife and children. Everything I do is done with my children in mind, trying to teach them by the example I provide with my own life. And I could never thank my wife enough for the support she has given me through the years.
From a writing perspective: Lou Aronica—my publisher, mentor and friend. He has taught me more about writing in a year than I was able to learn during the decade that preceded it.
A question we must all ask, who are your favorite authors, and have their works shaped your writing?
Stephen King- for his prolific works, and the amazing work ethic that has produced them all;
Mitch Albom and Nicholas Sparks- for the emotional works that they’ve created. I’ve been inspired by both.
I also love many of the classic American novelists that came before—especially Harper Lee. For me, To Kill a Mockingbird  is literary perfection.
What piece of advice would you give an aspiring write?
I work with a lot of aspiring writers. With an industry rejection rate of 96%+, this business can prove very harsh. I tell new writers:
Be true to yourself, always.
Write constantly.
Keep the faith!!!
And NEVER, EVER, EVER quit. Most people in this industry would agree that more than talent or skill or even luck, perseverance is the one trait that will always get the job done.
Knock on every door you can, and keep knocking. I promise that eventually someone will open and the warmth you feel on your face will more than validate every hour spent alone in the darkness.
When it comes to your books, you have chosen some strong emotional situations that people deal with in real life - where did the ideas for your books come from? Are there personal connections you have with each circumstance?
I believe that good writing makes people think, while great writing makes people feel. I’m always aiming for the heart. There are personal connections to everything that I write—though most of it is fiction. For me, once I've decided on a theme that I feel passionate about, I write the book with my children in mind—to pass along my thoughts and beliefs.
All of your books focus around family and the love and support we should find within them - would you tell us a little about your family?
My wife Paula and I have four children (two boys and two girls) and, although we live very hectic lives, we try to share everything. I’m also blessed with parents and siblings that have been very loving and supportive.
Finally, I want to know, do you have any books in the works? Can you spoil us with a little preview?
A la Nicholas Sparks, Pressed Pennies is a wondrous tale of connecting love stories, proving that the world really is a small place and, whether we believe it or not, we’re all connected. Love can happen at any time in life – young or old – and the trick is to cherish it by living each of its moments to the fullest. Amid the heart-warming romances and deceitful twists and turns, Pressed Pennies tackles the trying issues associated with living in a non-traditional family. In an era of divorce and single-parenthood, it is a story about raising children and peacefully co-existing; making it work with mutual respect and consideration. The book’s underlying theme is discovered in the evolution of the 80’s child. Though life begins as wholesome and innocent, technology eventually takes over. Day care, fast food and a list of coveted luxuries replace long talks in porch swings, tree forts and family suppers. The price for comfort proves very expensive, though, as the American family is traded in for the American dream.
Expected release date of February 2014.

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The Rockin' Chair
The Rockin' Chair
by Steven Manchester

About the Book: Memories are the ultimate contradiction. They can warm us on our coldest days – or they can freeze a loved one out of our lives forever. The McCarthy family has a trove of warm memories. Of innocent first kisses. Of sumptuous family meals. Of wondrous lessons learned at the foot of a rocking chair. But they also have had their share of icy ones. Of words that can never be unsaid. Of choices that can never be unmade. Of actions that can never be undone.

Following the death of his beloved wife, John McCarthy – Grandpa John – calls his family back home. It is time for them to face the memories they have made, both warm and cold. Only then can they move beyond them and into the future.



My Thoughts: The thing about Steven's books is no one is perfect, which makes them that much more relatable. We all have trials, and mistakes we make, but it's how we deal with them, that make us who we are. The Rockin' Chair takes a close look at a family who has let pride and anger stand in their way of family love. A key lesson I gleaned from this book is the need for open communication. Sharing our feelings, even if it might feel awkward at first, will benefit families in the long run. I don't want to ruin the book for you, so all I can say is - go read this! Read this book, and then use it to better your family relationships. Steven you've aimed for the heart and hit your mark once again. Thank you for a heartfelt story of family, love, and forgiveness.

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Monday, June 17, 2013

Summer is Here!


School has been out for a month here now, but it hasn't really felt like summer until this week. Possibly because we've been holed up working on our bathroom remodel, or maybe it's the rising temps with no AC that made it feel more real. Either way I propose a toast (with my Crystal Light Raspberry Lemonade) to the start of summer vacation. 

To Summertime - May you be filled with the laughter of children running through sprinklers, and good books on the porch. May your temps stay mild, and the bugs kept to a minimum. As we begin our first ever swimming lessons, let us all kick back and relax while we enjoying your sunshine.  May we remember that time spent with our children should be treasured more than possessions - and time spent with friends a bonus. As we bbq, hike, camp, and swim, let these summertime memories be just that - Memorable!

I hope you all are enjoying your summers! I've learned very quickly that despite my previous thoughts that 3 hours with 1 child gone didn't leave much time to get things done, it did indeed allow my to get a lot done. I've spent the last few weeks reorganizing and dejunking more of our house because the child tornadoes kept tearing through. Now that we seem to be mostly on a schedule, I'm tossing swimming lessons into the mix. In just a few hours I will be poolside with a book, while my oldest 2 Princesses learn the life skill of swimming. The younger 2 are getting some special time with Mark. It will probably make for a long 2 weeks, but will be so worth it....just don't let me forget the sunscreen!  

Thankfully with such a busy week, this week's menu planning seem to come together easily. Between swimming lessons, a trip up to Manti, and a Balloon Festival on Saturday, I really need this plan to stay on top of meals, while still having some family fun!

Menu Plan week of 6/17
Monday - Cake Pan Pizza
Tuesday - Shepherds Pie
Wednesday - Fajitas
Thursday - BBQ and Smores with friends
Friday - Sandwiches on the go: Meeting Aunt M and Uncle J at the Mormon Miracle Pageant
Saturday - Leftovers
Sunday - Dinner with relatives

MPM-Summer

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Every Child Deserves a Forever Family #FirstFrosty

*I was compensated for this post with a gift card to Wendy's. All opinions are my own*

I was so excited when The Motherhood asked me to tell you about Wendy's Fathers Day Frosty Program. What makes a weekend more special with dad, then heading out for some ice cream?  That weekend becomes a little more special when your normal ice cream run also turns into supporting a charitable cause.

When we received our meals, one of the first things we noticed was the phrase "Every Child Deserves a Forever Family".  With the purchase of a kids meal, donations are made to the Wendy's Wonderful Kids program. We hadn't been to Wendy's in quite some time, so I was really happy to see a continuous program to help kids get adopted.

That was just the extra. The real reason we decided to go to Wendy's is because this Fathers Day Weekend - June 15th-16th - 50cents of every Frosty purchased will be donated to the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption benefiting the Wendy's Wonderful Kids program. I couldn't think of a better way to enjoy our family time, then helping support a foundation that helps other children get into their forever families.

We of course had to try one of the new Frosty Waffle Cones, while we were there. It was very yummy, even though I only got a few licks in before this happened....


Yep, my waffle cone frosty was stolen by my ever adorable (and very allergy congested) 1 year old. He was too cute with it, so I gave in.

Have you had a frosty before? Do you remember your first frosty?
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Friday, June 14, 2013

Try New Foster Farms Oven Ready Entree's #Giveaway

I was sent a complimentary VIP coupon to try Foster Farms new Oven Ready Entree's. Unfortunately for me, because I live a good distance from any good grocer, I have been unable to find the Foster Farms Oven Ready Entree's. It was a sad day for me as Mark called me from each store he stopped in to tell me they didn't carry Foster Farms. I know I've bought the brand before, but it must have been before we moved to small town USA.

So stay tuned, because next time I visit my mom I'll be picking up some Foster Farms Oven Ready Entrees, and then telling you all about them!  In the meantime though, Foster Farms would like to send 5 of you your very own VIP coupon to try out their Oven Ready Entree's. With 4 very different and distinct flavors, I'm sure you'll find one you love.

As an FYI, Foster Farms is only available in the US West from Colorado to Hawaii.  However, even then, if you don't live near any major retailers (like I do), it may be hard to find.

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Thursday, June 13, 2013

Hot Fudge Butterscotch Brownie Milkshake #FoodieFriday


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Happy Fathers Day Weekend!  I got the idea for this milkshake from eMeals Fathers Day Menu. They had these yummy looking photos and a recipe for Caramel Brownie Chunk Milkshakes that just made my mouth water. Now I know how much Mark loves milkshakes, but he loves them loaded! So I made some twists of my own, to create this Fathers Day treat.  Enjoy

Hot Fudge Butterscotch Brownie Milkshake


Ingredients
1/2 cup Milk
4 cups Vanilla Ice Cream
5 brownies (I made Rodelle's Football Brownies, and just skipped shaping them)
Hot Fudge Sauce
Butterscotch Caramel Sauce
Honey Coated Dried Banana Slices, chopped

Directions
Blend Milk and Ice Cream in a blender until smooth. Add 2 1/2 brownies, and continue blending. Add in about 2 TBS of the Hot Fudge Sauce, and blend once more. 
Pour the milkshake into cups. Drizzle with more hot fudge, butterscotch sauce, and top with banana slices. Enjoy.

Stuck on what to make this Fathers Day?  Check out some of these recipes from last week's party!

From left to right, top to bottom

Bacon & Cheese Savory Bread from Will Cook for Smiles
BBQ Chicken Pizza from Call Me PMC
Caramel Brownie Chunk Milkshake from eMeals
Grilled Herb Pork Chops from Miz Helen's Country Cottage
Chocolate Banana Pudding Pie from The Home Heart
Sliders with Mushrooms, Swiss Cheese and Onion from Feeding Big


In Mark's opinion, you should ask your Father how he likes his steak, and cook him up a nice slice of steak, served with real homemade mashed potatoes, and some sauteed mushrooms. I guess I know what we're having this Sunday.

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5 Best homemade Fathers Day GIfts


1. Car Shirt from The Blue Basket
Perfect for the overworked Dad taking naps on the floor. Minimal effort for Dad, but the kids will remember an activity like this their entire lives!
2. Tie Basket from Me
An easy way to keepsake kids hand prints while making a useful treat basket for Dad. 
3. Father's Day Photo Collage from Positively Splendid
I love this sentimental display of love from children. This would be great for any Dad's office desk, or nightstand
4. Father's Day Treat Jar from My Sisters Suitcase
One of my favorite LDS Children's hymns is "I'm so glad when Daddy comes home". Putting the words onto a jar full of kisses will make anyone smile. 
5. Father's Day Shirt and Tie from Paper Crave
Sometimes a good mix of homemade and store bought is needed. These treat bags are the perfect way to wrap Dad's gift. 

I just love Fathers Day! Holidays like this one, though make me want to get a little more simple and homemade. We buy nice things for birthdays and Christmas, but when it comes to celebrating parenthood, I like it to come a little more from the heart.

Last year I had fun putting together the Tie Basket with the Princesses. They got to put their hands in some paint, and leave their mark around the terra cotta pot.  I cut a simple tie out of fabric and hot glued it on. We then filled it with Mark's favorite treats.  

I absolutely love all these other ideas I've come across over the years (and thanks to pinterest can actually find again!). This year I did something similar to Positively Splendid's Photo Collage. Instead of a single collage though, I made a photo book at ModernGreetings.  Included in it I asked the Princesses a few different questions about their Daddy. Things like
What's your favorite thing about Daddy? and Why is Daddy your Superhero?

I learned from this first time asking the kids about their Dad, that I need to talk to them each separately. Otherwise they end up all saying the same thing 
Daddy gets us apples and bananas when they're too high. 

I had so much fun making this book for Mark, and going through old pictures of the kids. Now I'm trying to make one for my own Father and Mark's Dad. Unfortunately, I'm always a little late on my timing, so the photo books are going to get here after Fathers Day, but they will be worth the wait!

Are you looking for a few more fun and creative Fathers Day Ideas?  Check out the free PDF file from Disney Planes full of Fathers Day Activities.
Download Spend the day with dad! Father's Day Activities

Or have fun with these FREE printable bow ties from MyMemories Suite....because in the words of The Doctor - Bow Ties are Cool!  

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Happy Fathers Day to all the Dad's out there!

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Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Potty Training with White Cloud Luxuriously Soft

This post brought to you by White Cloud. All opinions are 100% mine.
A funny thing happened recently. We've been trying and trying to potty train Princess R, but somewhat unsuccessfully. She would have a great day and I'd think "Yes we got this!", only to follow it up with a day I wanted to buy more pull ups.
Then, last week we started trying out White Cloud Luxuriously Soft Bath Tissue. I kid you not, suddenly Princess  R is going to the potty, only having accidents because it takes time to get that underwear down and up onto the potty. She stopped fighting us, and became suddenly aware of her body.
Now, can I really credit this success to White Cloud? I don't know. Maybe. I would say it's partly due to their Luxurious Soft Bath Tissue though. Let me tell you why in my first ever Video Review!

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