Category: family

  • National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

    National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

    February 21 to February 27 is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week. 

    I’m pleased to welcome Samantha Hope to the blog today to share her experience and why she is involved with Project HEAL

    Eating Disorders are an illness. Help spread awareness and end the stigma
     

    Eating Disorders don’t just affect young girls.  There is such a lack of understanding when it comes to eating disorders.  Eating Disorders come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and ages.  There is no “cookie cutter” eating disorder as I am sure some have heard the saying before. This is where my story comes in. I was 33 years old, married with 4 kids when this dreaded illness took me over.  Yes…an eating disorder is an illness.  Another thing that is misunderstood.  Someone does not wake up one day and say I think I am going to have an eating disorder. Eating disorders aren’t just about weight either.  

    I grew up as an only child and was raised by my Mom as my Dad passed away from cancer when I was just 10 months old.  I had a good upbringing, no trauma.  I was loved and cared for.  Growing up, I was happy with myself for the most part.  I was shy and did have a low self-esteem, but nothing that was out of the  0rdinary.  In July of 2008, I had a hysterectomy.  Shortly after my recovery came to an end I ended up getting sick.  It took months to finally figure out what was going on and to realize that what started with an
    illness quickly turned into an eating disorder. After searching and searching, I came across the Center for Change.  I was able to see a therapist and a dietitian as I tried to work on things outpatient, as I did not think there was a way for me to do a higher level of care.  Well after a year of that and not much progress I entered the day program.  I spent 6 months visiting the Center daily Monday – Friday’s.  When I discharged was I recovered???  No.  Was I on my way to recovery???  Yes. 

               
    Being a Mother and a Wife that has suffered from an eating disorder I want to reach out to other women and help them.  I want them to know they are not alone in the battle.  There is help no matter how old you are, how long or short you have struggled.  I want them to know that recovery is possible.  That is why when I heard about Project HEAL I knew I wanted to be involved. I saw that a Project HEAL – Utah Chapter was just created and I became the Co-Founder.  I love speaking out on this issue and my heart breaks for all those that have been affected by an eating disorder.  I have also returned to school so I can get my degree and help those suffering more in depth than what I can, working with Project HEAL. 
             
    I do want parents that are suffering to understand how their actions are affecting their children.  Children are smart and they pick up on what we do and don’t do, what we say and don’t say.  You may think you are being secretive but in reality, you are causing damage to yourself as well as to your children. Please again know that you are not alone, please reach out for help.  Eating disorders have such a stigma and are so misunderstood.  I have
    chosen to speak out to help people to understand more about them and I hope to be a positive influence to even just that one person.  If I can be an example and help one person it will make everything I do worth it. 

    Samantha Hope. Co-founder of Project-HEAL Utah ChapterMy name is Samantha Hope.  I was born and raised in California and moved to Utah when I was 19.  Shortly after moving here, I met my husband and we got married in Dec of 1995.  We currently live in Spring City, Utah.  We have 4 kids, 3 boys, and 1 girl.  I am currently taking online classes through Utah State University and will graduate in April with my Associates than I plan to get my Bachelors in Family Life Studies and Masters in Social Work.  I want to be able to help those that are
    struggling in Sanpete County as there is nothing here to help those struggling.  As well as being the Co-Founder of the Project HEAL – Utah Chapter. I am also a Pink Zebra Independent Consultant.  I lead a busy full life and I love every minute of it.

     
     
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  • I have a Dream..

    I have a Dream..

     
    Famous words that began to change a nation. A nation, that regardless your political affiliation, now has a black President. A dream fulfilled for many that only ever believed it to be a dream. 
     
    These 4 simple words are now in the popular – and one of my favorite – movies Disney’s Tangled. As Rapunzel turns a crowd of ruffians and thugs into a singing and dancing group that only ever had a dream. 
     
     
     
    Often I believe we look at the past and think, gosh they really did something wonderful, but then we look at our future and don’t believe we have the same capabilities. That our dreams can not be realized. 
     
    I disagree.
     
    I believe we can have dreams, big dreams! As long as we always strive toward them, and try our best, our dreams can become reality. And as Flynn says, then we can find a new dream to pursue. Let me share some of my dreams with you.
     
    I have a dream, that my children will see the good in everyone around them.  That they will look past faults and mistakes, to see the inner child of God. 
     
    I have a dream, that one day the media will stop pushing unhealthy body images – and that our young women will respect their bodies no matter the size and shape. 
     
    I have a dream, that one day we will own the perfect home for our family. Where our children will have room to grow, but not too much that it overwhelms us all. 
     
    I have a dream, that one day our political differences will unite us instead of separate us. It’s our different points of view and abilities to see both sides that will make us a strong nation. 
     
    I have a dream, to travel the world with my husband.
     
    What’s your Dream?
  • Healthy Child Healthy World with Seventh Generation

    Healthy Child Healthy World with Seventh Generation

    *Last week I had the opportunity to speak with representatives from Seventh Generation, Healthy Child Healthy World, and The Motherhood. Compensation was given. All opinions are 100% my own*

    I just have to share this video with you all. It brought back a lot of memories of my childhood before making me realize just how different the world has become for our children.

     
     
    Staggering, isn’t it? I remember going out and running through our wooded backyard without a care in the world. I often went outside without shoes on, and it was OK!  
     
    What really got me thinking, though, and really re-evaluating the everyday products I buy and use in our home was this next stat –

    In the European Union 1,328 chemicals have been banned from use in personal care items. Only 11 have been banned OR restricted in the US.

    Isn’t that crazy?  At first you might think, those Europeans just like to restrict things, they’re overly cautious. But really let’s think about it. Surely with a 1,317 difference, there’s got to be some more substance to it.

    I know I’ve shared multiple “green” cleaning products with you in the past, but truth be told, my absolute favorite cleaner is Hot Soapy water. I find it just does the best job, and it truly is the safest to use around the kids.

    I found a few more of these studies to be quite interesting and thought you’d like to look over them yourselves –

    • In a study of 10 minority newborns, more than 232 chemicals were found in the umbilical cords! Did you get that? Our babies are being exposed to hundreds of chemicals before they’re even out of the womb. Scary
    • In a study of 10 children’s face paints, all 10 tested positive for lead. Hello! You have to sign forms when buying an old house to make sure you’re aware that lead could be in the walls, but hey, let’s go paint some lead on our kids face. Sounds about right to me.
    • Studies have found flame retardant, Bisphenol-A, and other environmental chemicals in breast milk  Great, breast is best right? but how much are we losing that with the addition of chemicals into our lives. 
    • Consumer Product Safety Commission has recalled children’s toys and jewelry for high lead content. Shouldn’t we test this before we buy it? Before we expose our family to potentially dangerous chemicals?
    Knowledge is power right? I hope that this knowledge will inspire you to take action as well. 
     
     
    These are some great things you can do in your home, but if you’d like to get involved on a larger scale, I encourage you to reach out to your local Senators and urge them to pass the Chemical Safety Improvement Act.
     
    Did you know that the law regulating chemical use in our everyday products has not been updated in over 35 years?!  Seriously, I think that’s a bit long. We live in a constantly changing, and growing world, not to look at something so crucial as the way we use chemicals. 
     
    You can follow this link for more information on this Act and how to contact your state Senator. 
     
     
  • School Pictures using PicMonkey

    School Pictures using PicMonkey

    I love the tradition of taking “First Day of ___ Grade” photos with the kids. It’s something we can afford to do and keeps memories alive for years to come. Use this Picmonkey tutorial to make the best out of your photos! This post contains affiliate links and I will be compensated when you click on and purchase through them.

    Turn your First Day of School Pictures into a memory without props! All you need is Picmonkey. ad

    Here’s the kicker, we don’t have the money nor the space to buy full props to really make some of those amazing pictures you see. So I turned to my trusty photo editing friend, PicMonkey, to make our First Day school pictures pop just a little more while sticking to a budget. I hope you enjoy this tutorial.

    Raw, Unedited Photo. 
    A simple Auto-Adjust and Crop take out any unwanted visuals (like naked babies climbing stairs) and give you a more vibrant color.  From here you can play with the color brightness, RGB Levels and more but I’m usually pretty happy with the auto-adjusts setting. 
     
    For the First Day School pictures, I like to browse around PicMonkey’s School U theme. I grabbed a chalkboard shape it overlay and played with the color until I was satisfied. To make it look more natural after adding the overlay, in the little edit box that pops up with it, there is an eraser button. Using that I very carefully erased the part of the chalkboard covering her thumb. Voila! An instant home made chalkboard that needs no space in your home.
     
    To finish up, I used the Eraser Dust text to write our First Day Of… on the chalkboard. 
     
     
     
    Let’s do it again, but this time I’ll show you inside the super simple editor. 
     
     
    Upload your photo into PicMonkey’s photo editor. On the very to left is an icon with 3 lines and dots. This has your general editing tools – crop, rotate, contrast, etc. Click that to find the auto adjust and cropping tools.
     
    For this one, I chose to use an effect on top of the color adjustment. At the bottom left you’ll see an apple. This has the different themes. Once in there choose School U. For Princess C I added the yearbook effect which made the brick behind her a little less harsh and put a slight yellow tint to it.
     
    Instead of a chalkboard overlay, I thought Princess C had the perfect pose to add a shield.  Black was a bit hard though, so on the right is the item edit box. Here you can play around with the colors of different items you add to your photo. You can choose colors straight from your photos too!
     
    Finally, add your First Day of __ Grade and Export to your computer. 
     
     
    I hope this little tutorial helps some of you. Picmonkey has a FREE version, but for only $7.99/month ($3.99/month if you pay yearly) I find the Royale version to fit all my photo editing needs. I use it on an almost daily basis. 
     
    If you have any questions on how to use Picmonkey, I’m more than happy to help you out! Just shoot me an email, or leave a comment.
  • Tips for a Successful Marriage

    Tips for a Successful Marriage

    *This post is sponsored by Swiffer. All personal thoughts and tips for a successful marriage are my own*

    I don’t get on youtube a whole lot unless a video is shared directly with me. Some of my all time favorites are the cute old couples, who have been together forever. There’s just something about them that you can’t help like, and hope and dream that someday you’ll be that cute old couple.

    Couples like Morty and Lee give me the warm fuzzies. You can see their love for each other, but also their determination to be themselves. I just love it. 

    Today Mark and I are celebrating 8 years of marriage. We have a long way to go before becoming the Morty and Lee couple, but it is what we strive for. Here are a few tips for a successful marriage I’d like to share.

    Communicate

    On our honeymoon, Mark and I listened to a book someone had given us on marriage. The one piece of advice we both grasped on to, was communication. It told a story of a couple driving.

    The husband at the wheel, the wife as passenger. Wife was getting hot, and said something to the effect “it’s really warm out today”. Husband replies “yes it is”, and continues driving. The wife sees an ice cream shop ahead and says “A cool treat would be nice in this heat”.  Husband replies “yeah an ice cold soda would be nice”, and passes by the ice cream shop. Wife then begins to get angry. You never listen to me, she complains. Why didn’t you stop at the ice cream shop?!  Of course the husband is confused and baffled at his wife’s outburst. He had no idea she saw the ice cream, and wanted some. She didn’t communicate her wants properly, and expected her husband to just know. 

    This story is all paraphrased from what I remember 8 years ago. Probably not exactly the story, but you can picture it right?  How often do we do this to each other. Communication is so important in your marriage.

    Hold on to Wedding Vows

     



    So many marriages include the words “For better or worse” “through sickness and health” and “till death do we part”.  But how many of these become just words to couples, as they toss out their marriage because they “fell out of love”, or one spouse made a mistake that becomes unforgivable to the other.

    I will tell you right now – we have had our bad times. I expect more to come. But I know that I will fight for our marriage. I know that Mark will too because I know I’ll make my share of mistakes. As I forgive Mark for mistakes, I hope he can forgive me for mine as well. In our wedding, the words “For Time and All Eternity” replace “Till Death Do you Part”. When we are having a rough patch, I remind myself of that. I want to be married to Mark for all eternity. I plan on being married to Mark for all eternity. So we work on it. We push through until we come out to a sunny day – and there will be sunny days when you fight for each other, I promise!

    Take time for each other

    It’s often been suggested that you should have a monthly date night. A time to focus solely on each other, without the distraction of work, kids, or chores. By reconnecting you tell your spouse that you love them. You want to spend time with them, and you want to hear what’s on their mind that that they may not get to tell you during the rush of everyday routines.

    Mark and I have almost a daily date. After putting the kids to bed, we sit together with snacks and watch our favorite shows, or we pull out a book to read together. Sometimes we’ll just use that time to reconnect as well.


    Take time for yourself

    I fail at this frequently.  I have a hard time taking that time for myself because I feel like I must be selfish. It’s not selfish, though!  Let me repeat…Making time for yourself is not selfish!  There could come a point where all you’re doing is taking time for you, and then it would be selfish. But whether it’s getting up early to enjoy the morning quiet daily, or doing a weekly activity, you need that time. It allows you to enjoy a moment and free your mind of any negativity. Your spouse and family will enjoy the refreshed you. I learned this important lesson recently when I went to the Inspire My Life event with just my sister in law. I felt refreshed for almost 2 weeks after that, and still just thinking about it lightens my mood.


    Learn your spouses Love Language

    If you haven’t read the book 5 Love Languages, I recommend it. If you don’t want to read it though, I do suggest taking the Love Language test.  It’s really a wonderful gauge to see what others can do for you that make you feel the most loved. If you know your spouse’s language it will be easier to show them love, and they will feel your love much more in a way that truly impacts their life. For me, my main love language is Physical Touch. I love hugging, kissing, and holding hands with my husband. These simple acts, for me, bring us closer as a couple.

    Focus on the positives

    This is especially important during the rough times. We can get so caught up in the negatives of a situation that after eating away at ourselves, it will start to eat away at our marriage. A good rule of thumb is for every negative thought, think of 5 positives. I’ve often been told that I have a good outlook on life, and I do hope that’s true. Things like a job loss, have me looking at the idea that we can move closer to family.  Sure a job loss has been pretty scary for us recently, and if I wanted to I could dwell on the negative impacts our family is going through, but I’ve held fast to these positive thoughts, and because of it, I feel closer to Mark in a way I  hadn’t before.

     

    Be Flexible and Humble

    Because this is a post on marriage advice, I asked Mark what he would add to my list.  I couldn’t agree more with him. In a successful and long lasting marriage, you should be flexible in your wants, and be willing to give things up.  It is also important to be humble. To apologize when you’ve made a mistake and work to correct it. On the other side of that, I’d also like to add be forgiving. Forgive your spouse when they make a mistake and allow them the chance to fix it. An unforgiving spouse has as much fault as the one who messed up.

    How Do You Have a Successful Marriage?

  • The 6 B’s Lesson 2: Be True #FamilyHomeEvening

    The 6 B’s Lesson 2: Be True #FamilyHomeEvening

     
    Young kids don’t often know right from wrong. They are still learning, and as parents, we need to kindly and gently guide them to make good choices as they grow to be adults. One way we do that is through Family Home Evening – a night we set aside each week to teach our children principles and gospel lessons from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I hope you’ll join me in these lessons, and add any insight in the comments. 
     
    We are on the 2nd Be from President Hinkley’s 2001 address to the youth – Be True.  But to be perfectly honest with you, I’ve got ours a little out of order. Be True was actually number 4 on his list, but it all works out in the end.
     
    Opening Song: Choose the Right 
    Prayer
     
    Lesson:  Mark took over the lesson this night. He began by telling a fictional story of the girls. 
    “You were outside playing one day, and V thought it was a good idea to throw some rocks.  One hit the car window and broke it.  V didn’t tell mommy or daddy what happened. 
    When I found the broken window, I asked C if she knew what happened.”
     
    At this point, we turned to C and asked her, do you know how the window got broken?
    To which she answered “I think L did it”
     
    This was the perfect lead up into telling the truth. We told Princess C that if we ask her something, and she doesn’t know, she shouldn’t guess at what happened. Unless she saw it happen she can tell us “I don’t know”.  
     
    Once we finished the story, and talking to each kid about their different answers, Grandma P (who was in town for a visit), shared a personal story of how telling lies left her unable to play at a friends house once. 
     
    Finally we led up to being true to ourselves, as a Child Of God, we should always behave well. When someone does something wrong, or something we don’t feel comfortable with, we don’t have to go along with it.  
     
    This not so simple concept was a great lead into watching a family movie – Wreck It Ralph. Just don’t make the blunder I did and tell your kids 

    Ralph is being true to him. He’s a bad guy, and it’s ok to be ba…. (insert a raised eyebrow from Mark here) it’s ok to be you, and not let others change you. Pushing for something we want is good, as long as we stay true to ourselves.

    Closing Song: Stand for the Right 
    Closing prayer

    *Side note – Because I mentioned Wreck It Ralph I also wanted to share my friends blog with you – Fun Filled Flicks.  She created a fun Wreck It Ralph game for her kids one day, that I know my kids would love!

  • Are your Kids Safe

    Are your Kids Safe

    3 tips to remember and teach children about safety

    I was thinking about the news this week. One particular national news I almost decided to share my thoughts on, but to be honest, the emotions I’ve seen around the Internet…I don’t want to go there here.

    There have been a couple smaller and local articles that have been pulling at me, though, and making me re-evaluate just how safe and aware I am of my kids.

    When leaving with a babysitter, have I effectively communicated all the information needed?  Are my children safe at a park alone?  Are they even safe in my front yard, or my parents un-fenced backyard?

    Think About It!
     
    These 3 questions lay heavily on my mind because they all made the news this last week. The first article was about a baby found alone in a stroller on the sidewalk – but that was blatant poor parenting as the mother had no explanation as to why she left her child.  News like this makes me so sad!  
     
    Let’s move on, though, shall we?  I’m writing under the assumption that most of you are good parents who wouldn’t leave an infant alone, outside at 5:30 am. 
     
    Case 1
    Earlier this week, another headline hit me of a 2-year-old found wandering around alone. There were no missing child reports and no way to identify the child’s parents. So the news got his picture out looking for anyone to recognize him. Thankfully, his babysitter did!
     
    This was just a sad miscommunication.  Mom and son were new to the area, and Mom got up early and left for work – under the assumption that she had asked the family she was living with to watch her son that day. But Mom didn’t tell anyone when she left. Son got up after Mom and went outside as well. When the babysitters awoke and couldn’t find the boy, it was assumed other arrangements had been made. 
     
    TIP 1: Always, Always make sure you and your babysitter are on the same page, and never leave the child until the babysitter is aware of where they are. I’m sure this Mom is just so happy her son was found safe!
    Also, look into clothing labels. I know there’s products out there that attach to the inside of clothing with a name/address/phone number. You never know when it might be needed. 
     
      Case 2
    12 and 8-year-old sisters were playing alone at a park, after 7 pm.  A man dressed in black with a mask attempts to kidnap the 8-year-old – after the tried running away first. The 12-year-old managed to hit the man in his mouth, at which point he backed off, and the girls made it to a friends house.
    Mom taught the girls safety, and what to do in this type of situation. 
     
    Tip 2: Teach your children about safety. They are never too young to learn to run from strangers, and fight back if in danger. Have a “safe house” designated around any areas you frequent.  A “safe house” would be a friends house, an elderly couple in the area, or an acquaintance you trust. Show your kids the safe house, and remind them they can go to them anytime they feel they are in danger. 
     
    Case 3
    A man abducts a 5-year-old from her grandmother’s front yard with the promise of ice cream. As a neighborhood search commences, a 15 year old boy and his friends are given the description and begin their own search. When they spot a girl matching the description they begin following the car on their bikes. The abductor stops and lets the girl out before taking off. 
     
    Tip 3:  Teach your child stranger danger. Never accept candy, gifts, or promises from adults you don’t know, and never get in a stranger’s vehicle. I think this was a happy ending because a search was put under right away.  So if your child is outside playing, either be with them or check on them frequently!
     
    Think About It!
    3 tips to remember and talk about with your kids to keep them safe
     
    Could any of these have ever happened to you?  We had an incident just last week that made my heart race. We were getting family pictures taken at a local free garden (Thanksgiving Point). After pictures, we stopped in an ice cream shop for a little treat, and to get out of the rain. Mark had to run across to another shop for an ATM, and I thought he had Princess R with him. When out of the blue a stranger told me my daughter was stuck in the door on the other side of the building….WHAT?!  Mark had told Princess R to go back to mommy, he would be right back while I thought he was taking her with him. She ended up following Mark but getting stuck in the heavy doors. It could have ended so much worse.  We failed on communication!  
     
    With the recent stories, I plan on paying a little more attention to my kids whereabouts, as well as teaching them these same tips I’ve shared here. I know we’ve talked about them before, but it never hurts to repeat it.
     
     
  • The 6 B’s Lesson 1: Be Grateful  #FamilyHomeEvening

    The 6 B’s Lesson 1: Be Grateful #FamilyHomeEvening

     
    As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, one thing we do is set aside Monday nights for what we call Family Home Evening. It’s a night we try not to have any activities planned outside the home with friends, or work. We come home together, and spend the time as a family.  Some night it means watching a new (or old) movie or playing a game, while others we try to have a gospel-centered lesson. 
     
    So a few Mondays ago, I asked Mark to put together a lesson. He did great! He pulled his lesson from President Gordon B Hinkley’s address in November 2000 where he gave us what quickly became known as the 6 B’s
    • Be Grateful
    • Be Smart
    • Be Clean
    • Be True
    • Be Humble
    • Be Prayerful
    After Mark’s lesson that night, I got to thinking, and decided I wanted to cover more in depth each Be. So the following Monday I took my turn with the lesson, and covered Be Grateful.  It was one of the best lessons we have ever had!  So get ready to teach your kids about gratitude!
     
    Opening Song: Thank Thee for Everything (Primary Song Book pg 10)  This was a new song to the kids and one I’ve sung very rarely. So we attempted to learn it as a family. If you follow the link, you’ll find the lyrics and music.
    Opening Prayer.
     

    Lesson Time!

    I began the lesson asking if anyone remembered the 6 B’s. Princess V and C both did a pretty good job remembering most of them. I was impressed, and so very happy that they actually remembered some. It told me they really do pay attention sometimes. After we recited the B’s a few times, I told the girls that I wanted to talk about just the first B – Be Grateful. 
     
    We had a quick, child-friendly discussion on what the word Grateful means. Just like being Thankful, and saying thanks to people when they are kind to us, or help us, we are grateful for the things we have. 
     
    At this point, we then grabbed some blankets and headed outside to lay under our big tree. After we laid mostly quietly for some time contemplating the things we could see, hear and smell, I started one by one, asking the kids, and Mark what the were grateful for. As the talked, I compiled a list in my notebook.  Once again, my children impressed me with how well they understood and grasped the concept. Instead of saying things like their toys and material objects, the first few “I am thankful for” included – Family, Friends, Teachers, Sisters, and Brother. As I encouraged everyone to keep thinking and listening and looking around them at our beautiful earth – the answers branched out to things like Butterflies, Sticks and Flowers. 
     
    We ended the lesson by remembering who we need to thank for our beautiful earth – Our Father in Heaven and His Son Jesus Christ. We packed the blankets back inside, and closed the evening.
     
    Closing Song: Children All Over the World (Primary Song Book pg 16
    Closing Prayer.
     
    Refreshments! A good FHE always ends with a yummy treat.  You can try and tie it into the lesson, or just enjoy some Ice Cream Sundaes like we did – which by the way, is just another thing we should be grateful for.
     
    Of course after a few days, and some playing around, I created a little reminder for our home to Be Grateful all the time.  And, I even took the time to find the best way for you to be able to download this and use in your own home. Not only is it a great reminder year round, it would also make great Thanksgiving Decor. 
     
     
    Download this FREE Printable
     
    Keep an eye out for the next 5 lessons in this 6 part series. 
  • Today I was Mom

    Today I was Mom

    As I sat in church this past Sunday, and listened to talks about Mothers, my 3 year old Princess used my in much need of a shave, legs as a racetrack for the car we brought. As I watched her happily run the car up to my knee, and back down to my foot, these thoughts ran through my head. I came home, and put them to paper, but spent a little time tweaking it. 
    These are my thoughts on motherhood.  Enjoy.

    Today I was Mom

    Today I was a Racetrack
    and my lap your favorite cushion
     
    Yesterday I made 3 meals
    And Cleaned 3 dirty rooms
     
    Tomorrow I will play chauffeur
    And nurse, and Biggest Fan
     
    There was a time I was just me
    But then you came along
     
    Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow
    I’ll always be Your Mom.
     

     

  • Mothers Day Breakfast In Bed

    Mothers Day Breakfast In Bed

    It’s an iconic image for mothers day. Shown with burnt toast, an overly messy kitchen, and always a homemade card. A Mothers Day breakfast in bed doesn’t have to follow those messy trends. With a little forethought and Dad’s help, you too can have a breakfast in bed.
     

     Mothers Day is coming up. That means it’s time to get those gifts ready, and make plans to remind Mom just how much you love her. As a mom, I will tell you right now, it’s the little things that mean the most – an acknowledgment of all she does and the little sacrifices that may not seem like much is all Mom is looking for.
    Last week I shared 7 gifts Mom will love – today I’m giving you 2 simple recipes to make Mom’s breakfast in bed extra special.

    Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins

     

     

    Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins
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    Ingredients
    1. 1/2 cup shortening
    2. 1 cup sugar
    3. 2 eggs
    4. 3 Bananas
    5. 1 3/4 cup flour
    6. 1 tsp baking soda
    7. 1 tsp salt
    8. 1/2 cup chocolate chips
    9. Streusal Topping
    10. 1/4 cup butter
    11. 1/4 cup sugar
    12. 1/4 cup brown sugar
    13. 1/3 cup flour
    14. 1/2 tsp Roasted Saigon Cinnamon (gives it a very light kick)
    15. 1/4 tsp Nutmeg
    Instructions
    1. Preheat oven to 300 degrees F.
    2. Cream together shortening, sugar, eggs, and bananas.  Set aside.
    3. Sift flour, baking soda, and salt together.
    4. Add dry to the wet ingredients, and mix until well combined.
    5. Fill muffin liners 1/3 full with batter.
    6. Add a few chocolate chips, and fill the muffin liner up to 2/3 full.
    7. In a bowl combine butter and sugars.
    8. Slowly add in flour and spices until just combined. Crumble on top of muffins.
    9. Bake for 50-60 minutes.
    10. Cool on a wire rack.
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    Oatmeal Yogurt Parfait

     
    Oatmeal Yogurt Parfait
    Serves 1
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    Ingredients
    1. 1 cup water
    2. 1/2 cup Rolled Oats
    3. 1/2 cup frozen mixed fruit, thawed
    4. 1/2 cup vanilla yogurt
    5. Fresh blueberries and strawberries
    Instructions
    1. Boil water, and add the oats.
    2. Stir until well mixed.
    3. Layer a 1/4 cup oats in the bottom of a cup or parfait dish, top with 1/4 cup frozen fruit mix, then 1/4 yogurt.
    4. Repeat the layers.
    5. Top with a spoonful of fresh blueberries and a strawberry.
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    You can add that touch of special with a chocolate butterfly! Directions for that can be found at We Lived Happily Ever After.


     

    Don’t forget to pretty up the breakfast tray! Add some fresh flowers, her favorite book, whatever it is your mom likes. Go ahead, spoil her! 

     

     

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